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Help! My child has seen porn!

Help! My child has seen porn!

Take the panic out of porn & learn how to walk this prickly pathway with your child

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> Be the 'askable parent' for all things cringe
> Learn what to say (and what not to say)
> Stay calm, connected and confident
> Lead with common sense - not shock or shame

“HELLLLLLLPPPPP!” We heard the yell from way across town. 

Your child just saw porn. Maybe it popped up accidentally. Maybe a friend showed them.
Either way – you’re left feeling shocked, sick, and scrambling to undo the damage.

Take a deep breath. You can handle this.

You don’t have to say the perfect thing – but doing nothing isn’t the answer, either.

 

What this crash course covers:

Created by sex educator and nurse Cath Hakanson, this 60-minute crash course helps you move from panic to calm – and talk with your child in a way that’s safe, age-appropriate, and shame-free.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Understand what happened (and why it’s so common)
  • Talk about porn in a way your child can handle
  • Work through your own shock and emotions
  • Rebuild safety, trust, and open communication
  • Set boundaries and guide healthy curiosity

Cath walks you through the steps to respond, reconnect, and reset – without guilt, shame, or lectures.

 

What’s inside:

  • 60-minute crash course (video + captions)
  • Private podcast version – perfect for listening on the go
  • Printable version of the full training – ideal if you prefer reading
  • Web-based app - perfect for quick reference when you need it most
  • Instant, lifetime access – watch anytime
  • Library of parent FAQs – quick answers to the most common worries and what-if questions

 

Perfect for parents who…

  • Just discovered their child has seen porn (accidentally or otherwise)
  • Want to respond calmly and protectively instead of punishing or avoiding
  • Need help explaining why porn isn’t for kids
  • Feel unsure how to talk about consent, respect, or curiosity
  • Want to keep communication open for the next conversation

 

Ready to respond with confidence?

👉 Add to Cart and get instant access today.

 

You can find even more resources to help you respond to other tricky sexual behaviour in the Sex Ed Shop!

This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.

Age

FAQ

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Suitable for parents of children aged between 3 to 18 years.

Is the course suitable if my child hasn’t seen porn yet?

Yes – in fact, it’s even better to watch it before it happens.

You’ll learn what to say now to help your child recognise and respond safely if they ever do come across sexual or upsetting content.

Will this show me what to say to my child?

Absolutely.

Cath walks you through what to say (and what not to say) – with real examples and simple scripts you can adapt to your family’s values.

Does this include videos or explicit images?

No.

The course is designed for adults and focuses on parent education, not visual examples.

There are no explicit images or sexual content – just clear, practical advice about how to handle the situation safely.

What if I realise porn is part of a bigger issue for my child?

The course helps you identify when to seek more support, and where to find it.

You’ll know what’s within your ability to handle as a parent, and when it’s time to reach out for extra help.

What if I don’t feel ready to talk about this?

That’s completely normal.

Cath’s step-by-step approach helps you manage your own discomfort first, so you can lead the conversation from a calm, grounded place instead of fear or embarrassment.

What if I feel stuck or want to talk about my own situation?

If you’re feeling unsure, or you just need some reassurance about what’s happening with your child, you can always reach out for extra support inside the Sex Ed Membership.

It’s a private, parent-only space where you can ask questions, get Cath’s personal guidance, and hear how other families have handled similar situations.

Sometimes just talking it through helps you realise you’re doing better than you think. ❤️

How do I access the crash course?

Once you purchase, you’ll receive an email with an instant download link.

You can watch, read, or listen on any device, at your own pace.

Nothing physical will ship.

❓ What if I still have questions?

Click on the 'Chat' button (in the bottom right hand corner of your screen) and ask me!

You will not receive a physical product in the mail. Instead, you will receive access to a digital file, which you can print out or view on a screen.

This allows you to make as many copies as you'd like for your own family’s use.

30-day no hassle money back guarantee

The success of my business depends on the happiness of my customers.

If you don’t feel like you’ve got enough value for the price you paid, I’ll give you your money back. No questions asked.

You have 30-days from the date of your purchase to request your refund.

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A great resource

This class provides good information and advice on this difficult subject

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Recommended.

Get started with the porn talk

Loved it!

Great information and specially, great explanation, thanks for walking with us in every step

Insighful and soooo helpful

Insighful and soooo helpful

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Explaining Sexual Intercourse
A.
Perfect guide for talking to kids

This helped me so much when talking to my 6 year old who had lots of questions about how "babies get into a belly". This guide gives many different ways to speak about sex depending on your familes views and values. It gives you a way to speak about as many or as few details as you are comfortable with or that you think your kid is ready for. I appreciate how well written and thought out this was. I'll be using it in the future for more open talks with my children.

Thankyou Cath

As a practitioner working in this space, coming across this course for free and being able to share it with parents and staff, was just the cherry on top of visiting Cath's website. Thankyou for your accessible, compassionate and colourful approach!

A very useful course, thank you!

My daughter is 6 years old. Masturbation is a delicate subject and it is not easy to talk about it with friends or family, even with the doctor, because masturbation in young children triggers alarms and they think there may be abuse. So I thank you for this course, so well explained. My mother tongue is not English, but this course explains things clearly, in a simple and practical way, with tips and resources. With this course I understood that masturbation in young children is not so rare, I learnt how to deal with it and I felt understood and relieved knowing that there are more parents worried about this. Again, thank you.

wish i purchased this sooner

after a small incident with my 2 & 4 yr old, I purchased this course to learn how to approach teaching my kids about consent and to better understand what I should actually be concerned about. After this course, I purchased a few books that were recommended and will be having regular discussions with both my kids about body curiosity

Incredibly helpful resource

This is such essential reading, even if you do not think this is an issue for your kids in the moment, because it normalizes behaviors that to the untrained may seem problematic!

Just what I needed!

I was putting off the porn chat as I was worried about how I'd answer any questions! But now I don't have to, as it's in this book!

the reassurance I needed!

I've got a kid who is starting to ask lots of questions. This has been a lifesaver, as it's allowed me to answer their questions. But more importantly, it's shown me how to talk about these things in a way they understand

I love the illustrations

My kids are super curious about where babies come from, so I grabbed this to help me explain. The illustrations at the back are great, as I they helped me to explain. and answer their questions. Thank you!!!!!!!

Great product- non judgemental, friendly delivery

I recently purchased the getting started with sex ed course and was pleasantly surprised to find that instead of doing a big awkward talk like I feared, I’d already been doing a lot of the little conversations about bodies, feelings, consent etc with my kids. I liked how she broke the details into specific age/stages. Highly recommend!

Excellent information

Was very helpfull to oriented my daugther

Love it

What a great resource!

Worrying sexual behaviors

A great break down and understanding of sexual behaviors, both worrisome and age appropriate, by age. A great resource for someone who works with children and teens

Really helpful

Heaps of advice I'd never even thought about, super helpful!

Genitalia Learning Fun

A brilliant resource for students with intellectual disability and autism, who are also non verbal, to learn about parts of their body to keep them healthy and safe.

Great place to start!

Our daughter was very curious and was asking about pictures, this gave us a nice intro and gave her clear specific information appropriate to her age.

Good

Very informative, totally recommend

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Amazing info

This information is so valuable to all parents and educators. I wish we kids were born with this in hand. So so good.

Love that this book is electronic and I have access to it anywhere. It helps with conversations that tend to make people uncomfortable. Highly recommend

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Explaining Sexual Intercourse
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100% recommend

Reading "explaining sexual intercourse" gave me the piece of mind and back up I needed, reinforcing what I knew and offering precious new knowledge, in order for me to feel more confident and as ready as possible for whenever the time comes for educating my child on the matter.

S.P. thank you for leaving a review and congratulations! As you are the winner of the $50 Amazon Gift Card for leaving a review in July! I have just emailed you!

Worrying Sexual Behaviours

Making it easier!

I absolutely love this. This has helped me talk to my young children about different body parts, it also opens up conversation about body types. Everyone is different and I want my kids to know that! I definitely plan to purchase more in the future to help me as my kids grow.

If they've peeked at porn and you're freaking out, damage control is here in this snackable crash course