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The Parents' Guide to Explaining Sex

The Parents' Guide to Explaining Sex

A simple step-by-step guide to explain sex without shame, stress, or overwhelm

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> Cringe-free conversations that align with your values

> Simple 5-step framework that grows with your child

> Honest, inclusive language – no awkward metaphors

> Helps you feel calm, prepared, and ready to begin

"Muuuum... how are babies made?"

You knew this day would come… but not mid-grocery shop while juggling bananas and a fussy toddler.

And now you're stuck.
Do you keep it simple? Mention eggs and sperm? Say something or brush it off?

The Parents’ Guide to Explaining Sex is your step-by-step shortcut to answering these questions calmly, clearly, and in a way that feels right for your family.

The gentle, age-appropriate sex ed guide you’ve been looking for

This 85-page illustrated PDF (plus mobile web app) walks you through five simple steps for explaining sex – so your child gets just the right amount of information, at just the right time. Created by sex educator and parent Cath Hakanson, it’s designed to take the stress and second-guessing out of these early conversations.

With this guide, you’ll:

  • Feel confident answering questions like “how are babies made?” and “did you do that to make me?”
  • Share accurate, values-aligned information without giving too much, too soon
  • Lay the foundation for a strong, open, shame-free relationship with your child

What’s inside:

  • 85-page downloadable PDF (plus mobile-friendly online version)
  • The 5 phases of explaining sex (tailored to age and curiosity)
  • 10 key things to know before you start
  • 20+ ideas for everyday conversations
  • Child-friendly illustrations (fertilisation, pregnancy, diverse baby-making)
  • Prompts, scripts, and reflection space to prepare your answers

Worried it’s too soon? Or too late?

This guide is designed for kids aged 3–9, but it's never too late to get the basics right. You don’t need to cover everything in one go – just start where your child is at. The 5-step approach means you can ease in, revisit later, and share information gradually as their curiosity grows.

Not sure if it’ll match your values? No worries – this guide offers options and language you can adapt to your beliefs and comfort level. Many faith-based, conservative, and homeschooling families use it with confidence

👇 Ready to feel prepared instead of panicked?

Grab The Parents’ Guide to Explaining Sex now and start your sex ed journey with clarity, warmth, and confidence.

You can find even more resources to help you start the conversation and teach sex education at home in the Sex Ed Shop! 

Unsure if your child is ready to learn about sex? Find out in less than 2 minutes with our Parent Quiz!

This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.

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Suitable for parents of children aged between 3 to 14 years.

❓What if my child isn’t asking questions yet?

That’s okay! This guide helps you start the conversation gently, even if your child hasn’t shown interest yet. It breaks sex down into 5 stages so you can share just enough – at the right time.

❓Will this fit our family values?

Yes. The guide gives you the facts in child-friendly language – and leaves space for you to add your own values and beliefs. It’s used by parents of many faiths, including Catholic, LDS, and Muslim families.

❓What if I get embarrassed – or say it wrong?

You’re not alone. The first chat can feel awkward, but this guide includes tips to help you stay calm, sound natural, and grow in confidence over time.

❓Is it too early? Or too late?

It’s never too early – or too late – to start. The sooner you’re prepared, the easier it is to respond calmly when the topic comes up. And if your child is older, this guide will help you catch up.

❓What if my child repeats what I say?

That can happen. But don’t worry – the guide shows you how to explain private topics in a way your child understands and respects your boundaries.

❓Is this guide inclusive?

Yes. The guide talks about “male bodies” and “female bodies” to describe physical changes – but it doesn’t assume gender identity. It’s designed to support all children and can be adapted to your child’s needs and your family’s values.

❓How does the web-based app work?

Once you buy the guide, you’ll get a link to a special website with all the content inside – no downloads needed. You can save it to your phone, tablet, or computer so it’s always easy to find when you need it.

How to save it depends on your device – but it’s usually as simple as tapping the three dots in your browser and choosing “Add to Home Screen” or “Bookmark.”

📱 TIP: Open the link on your phone or tablet, tap the menu (top right corner), and look for “Add to Home Screen.” If you’re not sure how, a quick Google search like "how to save a website to my home screen on [your device]" should do the trick.

❓Can I use this if my child is neurodivergent?

Yes. Many parents of autistic, ADHD, and other neurodivergent kids use this guide successfully.

Because it breaks sex down into 5 simple steps, you can go at your child’s pace – and stop when it’s enough. The clear, literal language avoids confusing metaphors, and the child-friendly illustrations support visual learners.

Plus, you’ll find prompts and conversation ideas to help you explain the why behind private behaviours and body rules – which can be especially important for neurodivergent kids who thrive on structure and logic.

❓Still have a question?

Just click the chat button in the bottom corner of your screen and ask away – I’m happy to help 😊

You can purchase a paperback copy of this book at Amazon or Lulu (a book printer with reasonable shipping).

You will not receive a physical product in the mail. Instead, you will receive access to a digital file, which you can print out or view on a screen.

This allows you to make as many copies as you'd like for your own family’s use.

30-day no hassle money back guarantee.

The success of my business depends on the happiness of my customers.

If you don’t feel like you’ve got enough value for the price you paid, I’ll give you your money back. No questions asked.

You have 30-days from the date of your purchase to request your refund.

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C.D.
Great place to start!

Our daughter was very curious and was asking about pictures, this gave us a nice intro and gave her clear specific information appropriate to her age.

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S.E.
What a relief!

This easy to use book is so helpful. It's sometimes hard to know what is age appropriate information or what to say on the spot. I find her examples so helpful in curating responses to other random questions but also how to incorporate in your every day life. It's not a one time conversation. Thank you Cath.

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