Before the Porn Talk Workbook
Before the Porn Talk Workbook
A workbook to help you feel ready (not frozen) for the porn talk
> Work through what’s holding you back from the porn talk
> Move past fear and feel more in control of your emotions
> Get clear on your feelings about porn and sex so you can talk with more confidence
> Feel more prepared to talk honestly and calmly with your child
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You know the porn talk needs to happen... but it still feels impossible.
Maybe you're worried you'll say the wrong thing. Or that you'll make it worse.
Maybe you’re scared your child will get curious and go looking.
Or maybe you just feel… stuck.
😰 You're not alone. And you're not failing.
This is one of the toughest sex ed convos for every parent.
Why you need it…
This is your space to pause, reflect, and get unstuck.
Created by sex educator and parent Cath Hakanson, this workbook gently guides you through the fears, roadblocks, and feelings that are holding you back - so you can feel calmer, clearer, and more confident talking to your child about porn.
What you’ll be able to do:
- Identify what’s stopping you from starting
- Unpack your fears and doubts - without judgment
- Explore your own beliefs about sex and porn
- Build confidence to have the porn talk in a way that fits your values and comfort level
What's inside:
- 54 page Editable Workbook - type into it or print it out
- Checklists + Worksheets - work through your fears + feelings
- Audio support - listen while facing the tricky stuff
- Tips + Encouragement - practical guidance to keep you going
- Instant access - start whenever you’re ready
For parents who...
- Are feeling unsure, stuck, or overwhelmed
- Have seen porn (or not) and want to figure out how they really feel
- Want to do the right thing - but need help finding the words
- Know it's time to talk, but don't know where to begin
It’s okay if you don’t feel “100% ready.”
You just need to feel a little more ready than yesterday.
👉 Grab your workbook and take the first step - without the panic.
This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.
You can find even more resources to help you start the conversation and teach sex education at home in the Sex Ed Shop!
Unsure if your child is ready to learn about porn? Find out in less than 2 minutes with our Parent Quiz!
Suitable for parents of children aged between 3 to 18 years.
You will not receive a physical product in the mail. Instead, you will receive access to a digital file, which you can print out or view on a screen.
This allows you to make as many copies as you'd like for your own family’s use.
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❓ Is this resource suitable if I’ve never talked to my child about porn before?
Yes! This workbook is designed for parents who are just getting started. It will help you work through what's holding you back so you feel more ready to begin.
❓ What if I’ve never seen porn myself (or don’t want to)?
That’s totally okay. You don’t need personal experience with porn to use this resource. It’s about understanding your own feelings and values so you can talk to your child in a way that feels right for your family.
❓ Won’t talking about porn make my child more curious?
This is a common fear—and one we explore in the workbook. Research shows that open, age-appropriate conversations actually help reduce curiosity and risk, because kids feel safe asking questions instead of turning to the internet.
❓ What age is this resource for?
This workbook is for you—the parent or carer. It doesn’t include scripts or language for kids, but it helps you feel more prepared to talk to children of any age, especially tweens and teens.
❓ Can I do this if I’m not comfortable talking about sex either?
Absolutely. This workbook is all about helping you move from discomfort to greater ease—step by step. You don’t have to feel fully comfortable to get started.
❓ How do I access the workbook?
As soon as you purchase, you’ll get instant access to a Google Doc that you can type into or print out. Audio guidance is included for selected sections.
