Get started with the porn talk
Get started with the porn talk
Your first foray into porn education simplified. Zero shame, minimal discomfort.
> How to open the porn chat – and keep it as an ongoing conversation
> Know what to say to your child
> Explain why you want your child to avoid porn
> Age-appropriate, fact-focused content
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Splat! Something graphic just appeared on your kid’s iPad…
It happens! Even if you thought you’d set up Parental Controls.
Even if your kid has no interest in nudity, and still wears underwear which says the day of the week.
❓ Not sure if this is the right fit? Check the Porn Resource Roadmap to find the best tool for where you're at.
Sad but true: ‘How to have your first porn convo’ is vital knowledge for all carers.
This course is the training you need to reach a stage of open, healthy communication.
The detailed modules enable you to start and navigate the first tricky conversations about online pornography.
If your kid’s 3, you’ll start by simply talking about situations and videos that make them feel surprised or uncomfortable.
By the age of 18, you’ll be chatting about values and consent.
Important Note: Prescriptive training sucks!
In this crash course, you’ll make your own decisions about what to tell your kids.
Why? Because everyone has their own views about porn.
Our in-house expert, Cath Hak, suggests different statements and explanations that you can use.
They’ll help you to think about what you want to communicate.
Who needs it?
Thanks to the internet, our kids can have AI do their homework, watch retro TV classics, and… stumble across porn.
Thanks to the internet, every carer will likely need this course. Take it early and get prepared.
What’s in it?
This jam-packed crash course covers everything you want to know… and some stuff that you never thought about (like – what language is OK to use when talking about porn? And how can you begin this conversation?).
- What is porn? How to explain it to children.
- Who is porn for? Considering your views about porn.
- Where can kids satisfy their curiosity about this kind of thing? (Not Google)
- What to do when they see porn (with a 3-step plan).
- How and why kids can avoid porn (with lots of points to talk about).
This crash course is split into two age groups so you’ll get the info that’s relevant to you.
This is the perfect resource for learning how to talk about porn.
You can find even more resources to help you start the conversation and teach sex education at home in the Sex Ed Shop!
Unsure if your child is ready to learn about porn? Find out in less than 2 minutes with our Parent Quiz!
This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.
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Suitable for parents of children aged between 3 to 18 years.
❓ What exactly is this crash course?
It’s a practical, no-cringe video course that shows you how to start and guide the first conversations about porn with your child. It includes real examples, age-appropriate explanations, and a 3-step plan to help you feel confident and prepared.
❓ What age is it suitable for?
You’ll get two complete versions of the crash course: one for younger kids (ages 3–11), and one for older kids (ages 12–18). Choose the one that suits your child now - or watch both to plan ahead.
❓ How long will it take me to go through it?
The crash course is designed to be quick and doable - you can watch it in an hour, or break it into shorter chunks. You’ll also get lifetime access, so you can revisit it whenever you need.
❓ Is this course inclusive of different values and beliefs?
Yes! This course gives you options for what to say, so you can align the conversation with your family’s values - without shame or fear.
❓ What format is it in?
It’s a video-based course with easy navigation, plus optional written notes for key takeaways. It’s hosted online, so you can access it anytime.
You will not receive a physical product in the mail. Instead, you will receive access to a digital file, which you can print out or view on a screen.
This allows you to make as many copies as you'd like for your own family’s use.
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Let customers speak for us
from 58 reviewsThis helped me so much when talking to my 6 year old who had lots of questions about how "babies get into a belly". This guide gives many different ways to speak about sex depending on your familes views and values. It gives you a way to speak about as many or as few details as you are comfortable with or that you think your kid is ready for. I appreciate how well written and thought out this was. I'll be using it in the future for more open talks with my children.
As a practitioner working in this space, coming across this course for free and being able to share it with parents and staff, was just the cherry on top of visiting Cath's website. Thankyou for your accessible, compassionate and colourful approach!
My daughter is 6 years old. Masturbation is a delicate subject and it is not easy to talk about it with friends or family, even with the doctor, because masturbation in young children triggers alarms and they think there may be abuse. So I thank you for this course, so well explained. My mother tongue is not English, but this course explains things clearly, in a simple and practical way, with tips and resources. With this course I understood that masturbation in young children is not so rare, I learnt how to deal with it and I felt understood and relieved knowing that there are more parents worried about this. Again, thank you.
after a small incident with my 2 & 4 yr old, I purchased this course to learn how to approach teaching my kids about consent and to better understand what I should actually be concerned about. After this course, I purchased a few books that were recommended and will be having regular discussions with both my kids about body curiosity
This is such essential reading, even if you do not think this is an issue for your kids in the moment, because it normalizes behaviors that to the untrained may seem problematic!
I was putting off the porn chat as I was worried about how I'd answer any questions! But now I don't have to, as it's in this book!
I've got a kid who is starting to ask lots of questions. This has been a lifesaver, as it's allowed me to answer their questions. But more importantly, it's shown me how to talk about these things in a way they understand
My kids are super curious about where babies come from, so I grabbed this to help me explain. The illustrations at the back are great, as I they helped me to explain. and answer their questions. Thank you!!!!!!!
I recently purchased the getting started with sex ed course and was pleasantly surprised to find that instead of doing a big awkward talk like I feared, I’d already been doing a lot of the little conversations about bodies, feelings, consent etc with my kids. I liked how she broke the details into specific age/stages. Highly recommend!
Was very helpfull to oriented my daugther
What a great resource!
A great break down and understanding of sexual behaviors, both worrisome and age appropriate, by age. A great resource for someone who works with children and teens
Heaps of advice I'd never even thought about, super helpful!
A brilliant resource for students with intellectual disability and autism, who are also non verbal, to learn about parts of their body to keep them healthy and safe.
Our daughter was very curious and was asking about pictures, this gave us a nice intro and gave her clear specific information appropriate to her age.