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The Parents’ Guide to Private Body Parts

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Where’s your hoo-ha, vagojo, or winkie? Stop laughing, this is serious. It’s universally agreed that parents should teach their children the proper terms for – and rules about – their private parts.

Somehow, most of us still find it difficult to use the word “penis” in everyday convo. So if you want to know how to talk to your child about body parts – in a way that isn’t embarrassing, disrespectful, or stigmatic – then you need this modern and stylish book. 

It’s not just about facts. It’s also about values and feelings. Sexual health specialist Cath Hakanson writes about the topic in unbiased and inclusive language, enabling you to give your child an accurate view of the body. 

You will learn:

  • How to start talking about private parts
  • Suitable terms to use for different age groups
  • Discussing diversity, masturbation and erections
  • Thinking about your rules and values 

If your child’s started asking questions about their body, don’t panic. Get this parent guide NOW! 

This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.

Suitable for parents of kids aged 0-18 years.

You can buy a paperback version of this book here.

✔️ A downloadable 150 page PDF that you can print at home or read on your device.

✔️ A downloadable ebook file that you can download onto your device and open with an eReader app OR save to your eReader device or Kindle.

NB. You can also access this book as a Paperback.

✔️ BONUS: Ongoing support in my parent community (my free customer-only Facebook group).

This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.

❓ Is this guide right for me?

The Parents' Guide to Private Body Parts is for busy parents who want to have shamefree conversations with their kids about bodies. But they also want to keep their children safe.

It is for straight talking parents who want to provide their child with accurate information that they will understand. Parents who also want their kids to come to them with their questions (and not the internet or the schoolyard). Parents who are concerned about the impact of negative sexualised messages on their child.

If you believe that kids shouldn’t know words like vulva, penis or sex, then the Parents' Guide to Private Body Parts isn’t for you. The Parents' Guide to Private Body Parts is very direct and talks about penises and vulvas in a way that children can understand and not misinterpret. It helps you to talk about the stuff that kids are curious about so that you can satisfy their curiosity (instead of igniting it).

❓ But it is just too embarrassing!

Yep, I agree! I still feel embarrassed at times, when my kids ask me certain questions about sex. But the more that you talk, the easier it gets! Plus The Parents' Guide to Private Body Parts includes some ideas on how to get past the embarrassment of talking about sex with kids.

❓ Are my kids too young?

The Parents' Guide to Private Body Parts is written for children aged from birth to teens, and is broken down into each age group. So the information will be age-appropriate. And you'll learn ways to talk in ways that feel and look natural.

❓ What if my child repeats what I have said?

That can happen but The Parents' Guide to Private Body Parts will tell you what to do so that you can prevent this from happening.

❓ Won't I sound awkward?

Not to your kids, you won’t! The first conversation is always the hardest but The Parents' Guide to Private Body Parts provides tips on how to sound more natural.

❓ Haven't I left it a bit late?

Possibly, but it just means that it is even more important than ever that you start talking now with your child now. The Parents' Guide to Private Body Parts will show you how to make amends and catch up!

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Piwigirl
An informative book parents can use to start shame-free conversations about private body parts.

This book is aimed at the parents. Cath Hakanson has down-to Earth approach to opening up discussions with your child or children about private body parts.

I enjoyed reading this book because it doesn’t just explain things, it gives you directions and tips that are age appropriate in order to talk to them in an open and honest way.

As a parent, it can be so overwhelming with the plethora of information and misinformation available. I dreaded having to talk to my child from wondering where to start and what to say. I especially loved her tips, it provides guidance for what to say and how to say it. It helps to navigate through the minefield of misinformation that they can receive from their peers, media and the world around them.

There are also links throughout the book for further information which is very helpful.

I highly recommend this book.

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from 26 reviews
Sex Education Answer Book - great resource

This has been a great resource so far - reading it has given me more confidence in the way I am already opening conversations with my kids and giving me more information and ideas to further those conversations.

Emma Nicholson
The Sex Education Answer Book
Sexual values!

In our days, kids are exposed to different sources where they can learn about sex. This has been a real concern for me as a mom. I want to instill in my kids my family's values when it comes to sex! As a parent, we need to be clear about what are our culture's in general and family's in particular sexual values and beliefs. Thanks Cath, this has been amazing!

Mireille Jakmakjian
The Porn Talk Deep Dive
Such a valuable resource!

Great overview of child sexual development. Never had exposure to this type of knowledge. Now I know what to expect and what to look out for. Extremely valuable content and helpful tips for talking to our kids too!

Sean
Worrying Sexual Behaviours
Great resource for those of us who are overwhelmed

I grew up in a conservative home and my sex education was abstinence-only, catholic school education. I knew I wanted to do better by my kids but didn't know where or how to start. Cath broke it down into step-by-step instructions that eased my need to deep dive into researching the healthiest way to approach the subject of sex. She did all the hard work for me! She provides different prompt recommendation depending on your family's values which I really appreciate. I didn't have any examples of a healthy conversation growing up but Cath gives excellent suggestions to get you started - no matter how much or little you want to share. I ended this course feeling relieved, directed and confident that my kids will have a healthier relationship with sex than I ever did. It is a must have, first step for any adult looking to do better!

B.
Explaining Sexual Intercourse
Easy peasy

I've been following and reading a lot about how to better educate my kids about sex and everything that goes into it. I love the approach, the simplicity it brings to having these conversations and adds a layer of comfort for me too.

Amy
Worrying Sexual Behaviours
It was good!

I really appreciated how the topics were broken down to simplify sensitive topics for kids. It made it manageable with a topic that can be uncomfortable.

Johanna Call
Explaining Sexual Intercourse
What a relief!

This easy to use book is so helpful. It's sometimes hard to know what is age appropriate information or what to say on the spot. I find her examples so helpful in curating responses to other random questions but also how to incorporate in your every day life. It's not a one time conversation. Thank you Cath.

Stephani
Where Babies Come From: A Guide
Really good.

I’ve been integrating this into what I’m teaching my kids and it has been very, very helpful!

Jessica Rotenberg
The Parents’ Guide to Puberty
Internet Safety Rules

As always Cath is a life/time saver. I was thinking I needed to come up with something regarding internet safety that outlined our family rules. I opened my inbox and Cath had shared a new resource about this very subject. It was just what I was looking for but saved me time and energy. I like how she offers the resource for different age groups (readers and non readers). Thank you once again.

Piwigirl
Internet Safety Rules! Poster Set
It is already taped to the fridge door!

This is perfect timing as I found some photos on my daughter's iPad of her private parts! So this will help me to teach her what our family rules are. We have already printed out the little book, and colouring in one page a day! Thank you!!!!!!!

CC
Internet Safety Rules! Poster Set
Very informative and helpful

These really helped explain things to my kids, loved the range of detail and the diversity in the pictures

Anonymous
Your Body: An Illustrated Guide for Kids
Thank goodness for Cath at SexEd Rescue

Cath has provided invaluable insight & signposting for a really tricky situation! I’d be a hysterical hot mess without her guidance & support. I am so grateful for her work in this field!
Buy the course. It’s money well spent.
There’s a clue in the name, “SexEd rescue”. Cath really is the SexEd safety net for bewildered patents.

Anonymous
Understanding & Responding to Masturbation
It's nice to be prepared!

This is just what I needed - the values I need to think about for where my children are at now!

H.C.
Sexual Values Workbook
Helped resolve conflict

I bought this because my husband and I were disagreeing about sex education. It helped us both sit down and really think about what our values were, and together decide which ones to share with our kiddos!

Cate
Sexual Values Workbook
A great resource

This class provides good information and advice on this difficult subject

Anonymous
Help! My child has seen porn!

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