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The Parents' Guide to Masturbation | Special Offer

The Parents' Guide to Masturbation | Special Offer

What to say. How to say it. Without the shame.

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> Talk about genital pleasure calmly and clearly

> Teach without shame, fear, or awkwardness

> Get factual, age-appropriate info you can adapt to your values

> Make home a safe, open space for tricky conversations

Special Offer: 30% Off + 1 Month Free Membership Support

It can catch you off guard…
One minute they’re playing Minecraft – the next, they’re exploring their private parts.

You freeze. What do you say? What’s okay? How do you explain it without making things weird?

Take a breath. You’ve got this.

Masturbation is one of the most common things kids do – and one of the hardest things for parents to talk about.
That’s exactly why this guide exists: to help you respond calmly, confidently, and without shame.

 

Your calm, confidence-boosting guide

Created by sex educator, nurse, and mum Cath Hakanson, this 85-page digital guide (plus mobile-friendly web app) walks you through how to talk about masturbation in a way that’s age-appropriate, respectful, and aligned with your family values.

You’ll also get one month of free access to the Sex Ed Membership – where you can ask Cath questions, join live Q&A calls, and get personal support as you work through the guide.

 

With this guide, you’ll learn how to:

  • Understand what masturbation looks like at different ages (0–18)
  • Respond calmly and without shame when it happens
  • Set healthy, respectful boundaries and explain privacy clearly
  • Reflect on your own values and communicate them confidently
  • Support your child’s body awareness and self-esteem

 

What’s inside:

8 Practical Chapters, including:

  • What masturbation is (and why kids do it)
  • Why this topic feels hard – and how to make it easier
  • What to say if you see your child doing it
  • How to explain pleasure, privacy, and body rules
  • Scripts and example conversations for different ages
  • Tips for setting boundaries without shame or confusion
  • Encouragement to keep the door open for future talks

Extra Guidance For:

  • Sensory-seeking behaviours (especially for autistic kids)
  • Tricky kid questions like “Why does it feel good?”
  • Supporting faith-based values and family beliefs
  • Reassuring children who feel embarrassed or ashamed

Plus: A mobile-friendly web app for quick reference when you need it most

And now: An audio version – listen on the go while cooking or driving

 

Special Bonus: 1 Month Free Sex Ed Membership Access

Get personal guidance, live Q&A calls, and expert feedback from Cath inside the Sex Ed Membership – your supportive space to ask questions, share experiences, and get practical help with sex education at home.

 

Common worries, answered

Worried it’ll be too awkward? Or too much for your child?
This guide meets you exactly where you are. You’ll find gentle language, clear steps, and scripts you can actually use.

Already had “the talk”? This will help you build on it. Because talking about masturbation isn’t a one-off chat – it’s part of helping your child understand their body with confidence and care.

 

Ready to feel calm instead of caught off guard?

👉 Grab The Parents’ Guide to Masturbation today – and get 30% off plus a free month of membership support.

You don’t have to figure this out alone. Let’s make this easier – together.

 

This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.

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Suitable for parents of children aged between 0 to 18 years.

How does the web-based app work?

Once you buy the guide, you’ll get a link to a special website with all the content inside – no downloads needed. You can save it to your phone, tablet, or computer so it’s always easy to find when you need it.

How to save it depends on your device – but it’s usually as simple as tapping the three dots in your browser and choosing “Add to Home Screen” or “Bookmark.”

📱 TIP: Open the link on your phone or tablet, tap the menu (top right corner), and look for “Add to Home Screen.” If you’re not sure how, a quick Google search like "how to save a website to my home screen on [your device]" should do the trick.

Is there an audio version of the guide?

Yes! You’ll get access to an AI-generated recording in Cath’s voice, so you can listen on the go.

It’s the same content as the written guide – just in a format that fits your day. (And don’t worry – all content was written by Cath herself.)

We’re a faith-based family. Will this still work for us?

Absolutely. This guide helps you talk about masturbation in a way that aligns with your values. You’ll find flexible language, clear boundaries, and support to explain what’s okay in your home – without shame or judgement.

What if I feel really uncomfortable talking about this?

You're not alone – most parents didn’t grow up with healthy conversations about masturbation. If you were raised with silence, shame, or embarrassment around this topic, it makes sense that it feels hard now.

This guide won’t throw you in the deep end. It gently walks you through what to say, how to say it, and how to feel more confident over time – no shame, no pressure, and no overexplaining.

Won’t talking about this harm my child – or take away their innocence?

Actually, it’s the opposite. Avoiding the topic can leave children confused, scared, or ashamed about their bodies. Talking about masturbation calmly and clearly gives them the tools to understand what’s private, what’s safe, and what’s okay – and helps them come to you with future questions.

A shame-free conversation now protects your child’s emotional wellbeing later.

What exactly will this guide help me do?

You’ll learn how to:

  • Respond when you see your child masturbating – without panic or shame
  • Explain that it’s private behaviour and set gentle, clear boundaries
  • Talk about pleasure in a way that supports body confidence and safety
  • Have an ongoing, respectful conversation that fits your child’s age and your values

This isn’t a one-time fix. It’s a resource that grows with your child – and helps you feel ready, not rattled.

What if I’ve left it too late to talk about this?

It’s never too late. Whether your child is already in puberty or you’ve avoided the topic until now, this guide will help you start the conversation in a way that feels calm, clear, and respectful. You can begin today – and keep building the conversation over time.

What if my child is doing it a lot – should I be worried?

The guide includes a section on how often is typical, what to watch for, and when to seek help (without jumping to conclusions). Most of the time, frequent masturbation is just part of learning about their body – and the guide will help you respond without panic.

Will this encourage my child to masturbate more?

No. Talking about masturbation won’t make a child do it more – but avoiding the topic can leave them confused or ashamed. This guide helps you explain that it’s a private behaviour, without making it feel dirty or wrong.

Is this just information – or will it actually help me talk to my child?

It’s both. The guide gives you the background knowledge and the words to use. You’ll find scripts, examples, and conversation starters that are age-appropriate and easy to adapt for your family.

Is it suitable for neurodivergent kids?

Yes. There’s a whole section of extra guidance for children who are autistic, sensory-seeking, or may need more support with privacy and body awareness.

❓ What if I feel stuck or want to talk about my own situation?

You don’t have to figure this out on your own.

When you buy this crash course, you’ll also get one month of free access to the Sex Ed Membership — so you can get personal support from Cath right away.

Inside, you can ask questions about your specific situation, get reassurance that you’re handling things the right way, and access practical guidance whenever you need it.

It’s a calm, private space where no question is too awkward. ❤️

❓ How do I access my free month in the Sex Ed Membership?

When you purchase this crash course, you’ll find a unique coupon code in your download.

That code gives you one month of free access to the Sex Ed Membership — where you can ask Cath questions, join the monthly live Q&A call, and explore a library of extra resources.

Simply use the same email address you used for your purchase when you sign up. Once you’re in, you’ll have instant access to support, guidance, and the full member hub.

Still have a question?

Just click the chat button in the bottom corner of your screen and ask away – I’m happy to help 😊

You will not receive a physical product in the mail. Instead, you will receive access to a digital file, which you can print out or view on a screen.

This allows you to make as many copies as you'd like for your own family’s use.

30-day no hassle money back guarantee.

The success of my business depends on the happiness of my customers.

If you don’t feel like you’ve got enough value for the price you paid, I’ll give you your money back. No questions asked.

You have 30-days from the date of your purchase to request your refund.

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Loved it!

Great information and specially, great explanation, thanks for walking with us in every step

Insighful and soooo helpful

Insighful and soooo helpful

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Perfect guide for talking to kids

This helped me so much when talking to my 6 year old who had lots of questions about how "babies get into a belly". This guide gives many different ways to speak about sex depending on your familes views and values. It gives you a way to speak about as many or as few details as you are comfortable with or that you think your kid is ready for. I appreciate how well written and thought out this was. I'll be using it in the future for more open talks with my children.

Thankyou Cath

As a practitioner working in this space, coming across this course for free and being able to share it with parents and staff, was just the cherry on top of visiting Cath's website. Thankyou for your accessible, compassionate and colourful approach!

A very useful course, thank you!

My daughter is 6 years old. Masturbation is a delicate subject and it is not easy to talk about it with friends or family, even with the doctor, because masturbation in young children triggers alarms and they think there may be abuse. So I thank you for this course, so well explained. My mother tongue is not English, but this course explains things clearly, in a simple and practical way, with tips and resources. With this course I understood that masturbation in young children is not so rare, I learnt how to deal with it and I felt understood and relieved knowing that there are more parents worried about this. Again, thank you.

wish i purchased this sooner

after a small incident with my 2 & 4 yr old, I purchased this course to learn how to approach teaching my kids about consent and to better understand what I should actually be concerned about. After this course, I purchased a few books that were recommended and will be having regular discussions with both my kids about body curiosity

Incredibly helpful resource

This is such essential reading, even if you do not think this is an issue for your kids in the moment, because it normalizes behaviors that to the untrained may seem problematic!

Just what I needed!

I was putting off the porn chat as I was worried about how I'd answer any questions! But now I don't have to, as it's in this book!

the reassurance I needed!

I've got a kid who is starting to ask lots of questions. This has been a lifesaver, as it's allowed me to answer their questions. But more importantly, it's shown me how to talk about these things in a way they understand

I love the illustrations

My kids are super curious about where babies come from, so I grabbed this to help me explain. The illustrations at the back are great, as I they helped me to explain. and answer their questions. Thank you!!!!!!!

Great product- non judgemental, friendly delivery

I recently purchased the getting started with sex ed course and was pleasantly surprised to find that instead of doing a big awkward talk like I feared, I’d already been doing a lot of the little conversations about bodies, feelings, consent etc with my kids. I liked how she broke the details into specific age/stages. Highly recommend!

Excellent information

Was very helpfull to oriented my daugther

Love it

What a great resource!

Worrying sexual behaviors

A great break down and understanding of sexual behaviors, both worrisome and age appropriate, by age. A great resource for someone who works with children and teens

Really helpful

Heaps of advice I'd never even thought about, super helpful!

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A brilliant resource for students with intellectual disability and autism, who are also non verbal, to learn about parts of their body to keep them healthy and safe.

Great place to start!

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Very informative, totally recommend

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Amazing info

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Love that this book is electronic and I have access to it anywhere. It helps with conversations that tend to make people uncomfortable. Highly recommend

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Making it easier!

I absolutely love this. This has helped me talk to my young children about different body parts, it also opens up conversation about body types. Everyone is different and I want my kids to know that! I definitely plan to purchase more in the future to help me as my kids grow.