The Porn Talk Deep Dive

Name: The Porn Talk Deep Dive
Brand: The Sex Ed Shop
Price: 87.21 USD
Availability: InStock

Everything you need to talk frankly with your child

$87.21 USD

~~$0.00 USD~~ $87.21 USD

Sale Sold out

Shipping calculated at checkout.

> Porn-proof your child and family

> Get comfortable chatting about porn

> Resources to support and apply your knowledge and discussions

Wait. You want me to talk about WHAT?

About 1/3 of children see porn before they’re 12. But as their parents, it’s one of the very last things we’d ever want to mention.

Porn is readily available on platforms which are often completely uncensored. It’s time to upskill so that we can talk to our children about it.

In this illuminating and inspiring course, sexual health nurse, author and speaker Cath Hakanson guides you through the quagmire of how to talk about porn.

You’ll be equipped to power past your fear and get comfortable about talking to your child.

Cath calls it ‘porn-proofing’.

Plan your conversations and give your child a solid education so that they make better decisions, now and in the future.

This course is packed with insight and comes with a host of extra resources, including:

Further reading lists
Conversation starters, arranged by age group
A teen quiz
12-point checklist (what kids should know about porn)
An ebook about conversational tactics
Posters – 3 steps to take after being exposed to porn.

By the end, you’ll be so thoroughly prepared – and more than a bit relieved – that your child will know they can talk to you about ANYTHING!

Unsure if your child is ready to learn about porn? Find out in less than 2 minutes with our Parent Quiz!

This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.

Age

Delivery

Guarantee

Suitable for parents of children aged between 3 to 18 years.

You will not receive a physical product in the mail. Instead, you will receive access to a digital file, which you can print out or view on a screen.

This allows you to make as many copies as you'd like for your own family’s use.

30-day no hassle money back guarantee

The success of my business depends on the happiness of my customers.

If you don’t feel like you’ve got enough value for the price you paid, I’ll give you your money back. No questions asked.

You have 30-days from the date of your purchase to request your refund.

View full details

Sex ed in 3 simple steps

DOWNLOAD
Instant, digital access. Easy, Fuss-free, low tech.
LEARN
Bite-size practical information with everything you need to educate your child.
TEACH
Honest, open conversations to empower your child, your way.

Equip yourself to confidently, safely and regularly talk about porn with your child or teen

Empower your child

Empower your child to make informed choices around porn - so that when they stumble upon it (via a friend, by accident, or through their own research) they know what it is, and they can make smart decisions.

Educate your child

Open up communication with your child so they can come to you with their questions or worries (rather than friends, Google or online forums).

Prepare your child

Help them develop healthy expectations about love, sex and relationships (instead of this being ‘informed’ by porn).

Featured by

What you'll learn...

Why you need to talk about porn

The sort of porn your child may be exposed to, when, where, how, and why it’s important to have these conversations.

How to get past your fears

What could stop you from having these important conversations about porn (your fears and doubts) and how to get past these roadblocks.

How to get more comfortable talking about porn and sex

Explore your own relationship with porn & sex so that even if the topic makes you uncomfortable, you can still talk with your child without feeling too embarrassed, awkward or nervous.

How to porn proof your child for the future

Discover 8 effective strategies to prepare, equip and empower your child to make smart decisions when faced with porn.

How to talk to your child about porn

Start talking to your child about porn in ways that feel natural, not awkward. Includes age-appropriate guidance for ages 3-11 and 12-18.

What to do when your child has already seen porn

Get into the right headspace so you can talk to your child about what they’ve seen and support them how to manage these situations in the future. We talk about different approaches before puberty (when sex is seen as a weird adult thing) and after puberty (when sex is seeming a lot more appealing).

How to keep porn an ongoing conversation

12 different strategies for starting conversations so whether you’ve got a curious questioner, or a subject-avoider, you’ll have a number of options.

Plan a talk that feels natural (not awkward)

7 steps to plan a conversation in advance, whether that’s your first ever conversation about porn or sex, or when there’s something in particular you want to discuss.

Procrastinating over porn? Kids getting click curious online? Skill yourself in how to deal with deep dive.

BUY NOW >

What's included

Detailed training that is broken down into 9 modules with bite-sized videos where I'll show you how to confidently, safely and regularly talk about porn with your child or teen. Closed captions included.
Listen on your go-to podcast player
Printable workbook with 14 activities to help you apply what you're learning. Plus a checklist for keeping track of your progress.
Further resources of books, videos and websites for yourself as well as your child or teen.
Conversation starters, arranged by age group.
List of terms and definitions around porn. (Conversations are easier if you know all the lingo.)
Downloadable posters – 3 steps to take after being exposed to porn.
12-point porn literacy checklist (what kids should know about porn).
Short quiz to evaluate if porn is a problem for your teen (or even for yourself).

This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.

Frequently asked Questions

How is this different to other porn courses out there?

This deep dive is very different to all the other courses out there.

I believe that a 1 or 2 hour webinar or workshop is not enough to give parents the confidence to start talking to kids about porn.

So this course is a deep dive into talking about porn (something you just can’t do in an hour).

Where I’ll hold your hand and help you to get started with this difficult conversation.

I’ve never mentioned porn (or sex) to my child before, will this help me get started?

This course will get you started whether you’ve talked to your child about porn (or not).

Inside the course, we’ll look at the different ways to start the conversation.

And if you’ve yet to talk about sex, then you’ll find a training module on this inside the course.

Plus there’s a lesson on how to talk to kids about porn without mentioning sex.

How young is too young to be talking about porn?

If your child has access to your phone or a handheld tablet, then it’s a conversation you need to have.

But relax, inside the course I’ll be talking about how to have age-appropriate conversations with kids of all ages.

Where we talk about how to stay safe without mentioning sex or porn.

And the content inside is broken down into different age groups i.e. 3 to 5 years, 6 to 8 years, 9 to 11 years, 12 to 14 years and 15+.

There’s no chance my child will be exposed to porn – do I still need this?

Soft porn shows up in mainstream media so it’s a matter of when your child sees porn, not if!

And the sooner you start the conversations, the easier they’ll get, and the safer your child will be.

I’ve already tried, but I found the conversation too uncomfortable and embarrassing…

Pardon my pun, but porn is a hard topic to talk about.

This is why a whole section of the course is dedicated to helping you to feel more comfortable about porn and sex.

I’m comfortable talking about porn but my child has shut down previous attempts at conversation.

That can happen!

And inside the course we’ll be talking about the different ways around this.

What if my child has already seen porn?

There is a whole section in the course that has been written specifically for parents in this situation. I’ll help you work out how best to respond in a way that will support your child so that porn doesn’t become an ongoing problem.

I’m worried my child/teen has a problem with porn – will this course help me with that?

You are not alone with this. Lots of parents worry that their child has a problem with porn.

So in the course, we’ll look at how to work out whether porn is a problem (or not).

And if it looks like it is, then I’ll help you find the next step on what to do so that your child feels in control and able to make smart decisions.

What does a successful conversation about porn look like?

The opposite of mumbled, hurried and confusing.

This course will help you have porn-related conversations where:

You know why you’re talking – you have a clear intention in mind, you’re not just lecturing, scolding or talking out of a feeling of obligation
You’re able to move past your fears and leave those out of the conversation
You feel comfortable throughout the conversation able to respond to your child’s input or questions without trying to hurriedly shut the topic down.

When you’re able to communicate effectively around this topic, you’ll make your child feel more comfortable, which makes them more likely to come back to you when they need to, about this, and other sensitive personal matters in their life.