Understanding & Responding to Masturbation

Name: Understanding & Responding to Masturbation
Brand: The Sex Ed Shop
Price: 25.38 USD
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Understanding & Responding to Masturbation

Masturbation education for parents who need to tackle sticky territory

$25.38 USD

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❤️ Get comfortable talking about genital pleasure with your child

❤️ Teach your kids without shame, fear or embarrassment

❤️ Sensitive, factual information you can tailor to your values

❤️ Create home as a safe space to talk about everything

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We want our kids to grow up into sensitive and sexually aware adults… and sometimes that involves REALLY difficult conversations. But don’t worry. Experienced sex educator Cath Hak comes to the rescue!

This 70-minute video masterclass will leave you feeling comfortable and confident about raising the subject of masturbation with your child. You’ll be able to…

Decide what your child needs to know
Understand the whos and whys of masturbation
Know when you should worry about your child’s behaviour
Move past discomfort and shame
… and find loads of extra resources you need to help you.

Want to talk about genitals and pleasure with respect and dignity?

Buy this crash course now - and be totally prepared for this very sticky subject!

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Sex ed in 3 simple steps

DOWNLOAD
Instant, digital access. Easy, Fuss-free, low tech.
LEARN
Bite-size practical information with everything you need to educate your child.
TEACH
Honest, open conversations to empower your child, your way.

Self sexual pleasure is totally normal

Jerkin’ the gherkin, clicking the mouse, masturbating. If your child is curious about (or already exploring) self-pleasure it’s time to get serious, informed and have an age-appropriate discussion with your child.

Masturbate = educate

Learn the proper terms for body parts and teach that masturbation is for pleasure, and private. With tips to help you navigate the discussion, this crash course helps you inform and empower your child’s sexual development journey.

Be their source of information

Curious kids Googling “what is masturbation?” Not the best idea – or fact source. Watch this crash course and know how to begin open, honest and sensitive conversations with your child about masturbation. Teach them the facts in a way that suits your values and beliefs. Equip them with the information to safely chart their own pleasurable course.

Healthy, normal sexual development

It’s healthy for your child to do some self-exploration, sexually. Masturbation and self-touch are part of understanding boundaries, pleasure and consent. From sexual anatomy terms to body image and beyond, this course explores it all sensitively and factually so you can understand how masturbation fits into your child’s development.

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What you'll learn

Create a safe space for your child to ask questions about their bodies and sexual development.

Promote a healthy understanding of self-exploration and personal boundaries.

Encourage open and honest communication with your child about the sensitive topic of masturbation.

Equip yourself with the knowledge and skills to address masturbation without shame or embarrassment.

Instil a positive body image and foster healthy sexual development in your child (as well as protect them from inappropriate sexual touch).

Navigate conversations about masturbation with confidence and sensitivity.

... and where to find the resources to help you.

Want to talk about genitals and pleasure with respect and dignity? Buy now for lifetime access – and be totally prepared for this very sticky subject.

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Thank goodness for Cath at SexEd Rescue

Cath has provided invaluable insight & signposting for a really tricky situation! I’d be a hysterical hot mess without her guidance & support. I am so grateful for her work in this field!
Buy the course. It’s money well spent.
There’s a clue in the name, “SexEd rescue”. Cath really is the SexEd safety net for bewildered patents.

Helpful information, but inconsistent in one major area.

I found the masterclass to be thorough and centered on developing a healthy sense of autonomy and self-exploration for children. One aspect that was confusing was that Cath repeatedly went over the importance of kids understanding that masturbation is something that they must only do in private- which I agree, is critical- yet she also said that kids masturbating with each other is totally normal and "okay" so long as they aren't touching each other. While curiosity and exploration might be developmentally expected, children need clear and consistent boundaries around privacy so that they are not vulnerable to sexual abuse by peers or adults.

Hi Ariel, and thanks for bringing that up! I have gone back into the Masterclass and have found what you are referring to.
There is a section (WHO masturbates and how this behaviour changes as your child grows up - What is developmentally appropriate behaviour?) that talks about the sexual behaviours a child may display as they grow up.
I have used a European tool and they explain that children may want to masturbate with others, and if they do it is seen as being developmentally approriate behaviour, as long as they are only masturbating themselves and not touching other people's penises.
So... this is where it starts to get confusing, as just because a behaviour is seen as being age-appropriate, it doesn't mean that we let them keep on doing it. We would discourage it and ensure they know it is a private thing (not public).
I'll jump into the Masterclass and add a note into this section of the readable notes.
I hope this makes sense! Cheers, Cath

Excellent advice from an expert

I loved Cath’s class because it gave me permission to lean into my instincts and relax around some of the things that were coming up in my household. I also greatly appreciated how much explicit attention Cath gave to neurodivergent children. She even provided more resources to follow up with if I chose to (which I did). Her class had made my life much easier. Very accessible in many different formats and I can easily share with my husband. Thank you, Cath!

Let the fun times begin!

I purchased this resource to educate myself after my 5 yo discovered that shower stream feels nice down there. The next day the conversation was so easy for me, I knew what to say and how much detail to give. Cath’s language is accessible down to earth Aussie, I felt like I was sitting across her talking about it.
I’ve purchased other items from her store and
reading/watching them felt more at ease with the most difficult conversations around sex and bodies. I would recommend Cath and her knowledge for anyone wanting to provide their children with the right/accessible information so they can thrive in life confident in their bodies and loving themselves. Thank you Cath. You’ve made my job as a mum much easier.

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Frequently asked Questions

Is this a live class I need to attend?

No - this is a recording of a training.

The recording has been broken down into shorter lessons, approx 3-18 minutes long.

Each lesson includes a video, a text summary and captions.

You’ll also have access to a private podcast feed version of the training, which means you can listen via your mobile phone.

Does my child watch this crash course, or me, or both of us?

This crash course is for parents to watch, without their child.

How do I access the crash course?

When you complete your purchase, you’ll be sent an email with the access details. You can access the crash course from any device with an Internet connection.

How long does the course take to complete?

You’ll need approximately 70 minutes to watch the training, or you can watch in multiple shorter sittings, as the class has been broken up into short lessons.

How will this transaction appear on my bank or credit card statement?

Your purchase will be 100% private. It will show on your statement as a payment to Cath Hakanson.

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