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The Parents' Guide to Masturbation: Puberty Bonus Edition

The Parents' Guide to Masturbation: Puberty Bonus Edition

Clear words and a calm plan for handling masturbation and private touching

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> Clear scripts for those “my brain just went blank” moments

> Private body rules that teach safety without shame

> Guidance for toddlers through teens, including neurodivergent kids

> Includes the subscriber-only puberty bonus during this offer

The Parents' Guide to Masturbation

Most parents aren’t ready the first time their child touches, rubs, humps, or masturbates.

You might freeze. Overreact. Say too much. Say nothing. Or quietly panic because you don’t know what’s normal, what needs a boundary, and what might need extra support.

The Parent’s Guide to Masturbation is a practical crash course that helps you know what to say, what to do, what to teach, and when to get extra support — without shame, panic, or awkward guessing.

This isn’t just more information about masturbation.

It’s a back-pocket resource for one of those parenting moments that often happens before you feel ready.

This crash course helps you:

  • Respond calmly when your child touches themselves, rubs, humps, or masturbates
  • Explain private body rules without shame
  • Teach that private does not mean secret
  • Set clear boundaries around privacy, safety, other people, photos, and videos
  • Understand why the behaviour might be happening
  • Know what’s typical, what needs redirecting, and when to get extra support
  • Adapt the conversation to your family’s values, culture, faith, or beliefs
  • Support neurodivergent, sensory-seeking, anxious, impulsive, literal, or rule-needing kids

What’s included:

  • Short practical video training
  • A written guide you can read when you need help
  • What to do first when something happens
  • Simple scripts for awkward moments
  • Guidance for redirecting without shame
  • Private touching rules and safety messages
  • Red flags for when to seek extra support
  • Printables and quick-reference tools
  • Parent Q&A library

Subscriber-only bonus

Buy during this offer and you’ll also get bonus training and printables on how to talk about masturbation and puberty

Because the M Talk changes as kids grow.

The core crash course helps you handle masturbation and private body behaviour now. The bonus helps you connect the conversation to puberty, privacy, growing independence, digital safety, attraction, relationships, and body changes.

Keep this course handy if:

Your child is a toddler, preschooler, school-aged child, tween, or teen — and you want calm, clear, shame-free words before you need them.

You are not a bad parent. Your child is not bad.

But you do need clear words and a plan.

Get The Parent’s Guide to Masturbation with the subscriber-only puberty bonus.

This is a digital product. Nothing physical will ship.

Age

FAQ

Delivery

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Suitable for parents of children aged between 0 to 18 years.

❓ Is my child too young or too old for this?

No. This course is for parents of children from toddlerhood through the teen years. The conversation simply changes as kids grow — from private body rules and safety to puberty, privacy, digital safety, consent, relationships, and values.

❓ Will this fit with my family’s values?

Yes. The course is open-minded and values-flexible. You can bring your own family, faith, cultural, or personal values into the conversation without using shame, fear, or silence.

❓ Is this suitable for neurodivergent kids?

Yes. The course includes support for autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, sensory-seeking, impulsive, anxious, literal, and rule-needing kids, with guidance on clear rules, repetition, regulation, and shame-free redirection.

❓ What if I’m worried the behaviour isn’t normal?

The course helps you understand why the behaviour might be happening and when to get extra support. It includes guidance on common reasons, red flags, and when it’s time to seek professional help.

❓ Is this just information I could find in a blog post?

No. Blog posts can explain the topic. This crash course gives you the actual words, scripts, examples, videos, printables, Q&A support, and step-by-step plan.

❓ What’s included?

You’ll get short video training, a detailed written guide, scripts, private body rules, shame-free redirection strategies, red flag guidance, printables, quick-reference tools, and a parent Q&A library.

❓ What is the subscriber-only puberty bonus?

Buy during this offer and you’ll also get bonus training and printables on how to talk about masturbation and puberty, including privacy, body changes, digital safety, attraction, relationships, and growing independence.

❓ Is this only for parents who are already dealing with masturbation?

No. It’s also for parents who want to be prepared before it happens, so they know what to say and do when the moment comes.

❓ What if I already have the Everything Bundle?

If you have the Everything Bundle, you already have access to this crash course. Log in and look for The Parent’s Guide to Masturbation.

You will not receive a physical product in the mail. Instead, you will receive access to a digital file, which you can print out or view on a screen.

This allows you to make as many copies as you'd like for your own family’s use.

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A very useful course, thank you!

My daughter is 6 years old. Masturbation is a delicate subject and it is not easy to talk about it with friends or family, even with the doctor, because masturbation in young children triggers alarms and they think there may be abuse. So I thank you for this course, so well explained. My mother tongue is not English, but this course explains things clearly, in a simple and practical way, with tips and resources. With this course I understood that masturbation in young children is not so rare, I learnt how to deal with it and I felt understood and relieved knowing that there are more parents worried about this. Again, thank you.

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Anonymous
Thank goodness for Cath at SexEd Rescue

Cath has provided invaluable insight & signposting for a really tricky situation! I’d be a hysterical hot mess without her guidance & support. I am so grateful for her work in this field!
Buy the course. It’s money well spent.
There’s a clue in the name, “SexEd rescue”. Cath really is the SexEd safety net for bewildered patents.

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T.R.
Excellent advice from an expert

I loved Cath’s class because it gave me permission to lean into my instincts and relax around some of the things that were coming up in my household. I also greatly appreciated how much explicit attention Cath gave to neurodivergent children. She even provided more resources to follow up with if I chose to (which I did). Her class had made my life much easier. Very accessible in many different formats and I can easily share with my husband. Thank you, Cath!

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M.W.
Let the fun times begin!

I purchased this resource to educate myself after my 5 yo discovered that shower stream feels nice down there. The next day the conversation was so easy for me, I knew what to say and how much detail to give. Cath’s language is accessible down to earth Aussie, I felt like I was sitting across her talking about it.
I’ve purchased other items from her store and
reading/watching them felt more at ease with the most difficult conversations around sex and bodies. I would recommend Cath and her knowledge for anyone wanting to provide their children with the right/accessible information so they can thrive in life confident in their bodies and loving themselves. Thank you Cath. You’ve made my job as a mum much easier.

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A.M.
Helpful information, but inconsistent in one major area.

I found the masterclass to be thorough and centered on developing a healthy sense of autonomy and self-exploration for children. One aspect that was confusing was that Cath repeatedly went over the importance of kids understanding that masturbation is something that they must only do in private- which I agree, is critical- yet she also said that kids masturbating with each other is totally normal and "okay" so long as they aren't touching each other. While curiosity and exploration might be developmentally expected, children need clear and consistent boundaries around privacy so that they are not vulnerable to sexual abuse by peers or adults.

Hi Ariel, and thanks for bringing that up! I have gone back into the Masterclass and have found what you are referring to.
There is a section (WHO masturbates and how this behaviour changes as your child grows up - What is developmentally appropriate behaviour?) that talks about the sexual behaviours a child may display as they grow up.
I have used a European tool and they explain that children may want to masturbate with others, and if they do it is seen as being developmentally approriate behaviour, as long as they are only masturbating themselves and not touching other people's penises.
So... this is where it starts to get confusing, as just because a behaviour is seen as being age-appropriate, it doesn't mean that we let them keep on doing it. We would discourage it and ensure they know it is a private thing (not public).
I'll jump into the Masterclass and add a note into this section of the readable notes.
I hope this makes sense! Cheers, Cath

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